By Tristan Bridges and Peter Rydzewski*
Colors are one way that the gender of different spaces can be communicated. Pink and blue are the most identifiable, and recent research shows that men do seem to prefer blue (though, so do women). Men’s aversion from pink, however, is stronger than women’s (though it’s also true that pink can be framed as masculine for select groups of men). While this can feel timeless, like most aspects of gender, it hasn’t always been around. And even when we began assigning gender to colors, pink was not always associated with girls.
Jo B. Paoletti’s incredible history of children’s fashion in America—Pink and Blue: Telling the Boys from the Girls in America—is a beautifully written and carefully researched examination this strange issue. Prior to the 1900s, children in America were dressed in ways that illustrated their age rather than gender (and both little boys and girls wore white dresses and had long hair). But, right around the turn of the 20th century, we started to see children being dressed in more colors and certain colors coming to be associated with either girls or boys—but not both. Paoletti starts a chapter with an excellent quote from a department store publication in 1918 explaining children’s clothes to parents in the responding to readers section. It reads:
Pink or Blue? Which is intended for boys and which for girls?… There have been a great diversity of opinion on this subject, but the generally accepted rule is pink for a boy and blue for a girl. The reason is that pink, being a decidedly stronger color, is more suitable for a boy, while blue, which is more delicate and dainty, is prettier for a girl. (here: 85)
Today, we think of pink as a “girl color,” and few of us would struggle if asked whether it was for girls or boys. But, the parents addressed in this publication were less sure. Apparently, these parents didn’t know what we know and, by contemporary standards, the author seems to have the colors mixed up. So, colors are capable of acquiring a gender, and when they do, framing is clearly key.
This issue is dramatically highlighted in a recent advertising campaign by CIL paints. The campaign is entitled “Paint Chip Names for Men” and it was accompanied by a pamphlet—CIL Ultimate Man Caves—that listed the actual names of CIL paint colors along with a “manly name” (like switching a dark tan from “Monterey Cliffs” to “Wolfden”) along with a series of images of different kinds of man caves.


